Thursday, September 27, 2012

Ian's Room With The Toy Box

It is hard to believe that 2 weeks from tonight we will be heading to Tampa to begin our Journey! Soon...very soon...this new room will be filled up with the cutest little boy! What a blessing to our family!

Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Blessed with Pictures AGAIN!!!!

Today I received more photos from Kathleen who is with her new son in China and coming home soon!  In addition, I finally received the party pictures for Ian's "Forever Family Party" that we ordered for him.   Here are a few of my favoites....


 
Saying good bye to his friend...

 This is the cake they chose for him as his "Forever Family" party cake.  I am not crazy about the "Pleasant Goat" but he seems happy with it.





Our sweet boy...

Sunday, September 23, 2012

Asking for Prayer

The below letter was sent out to my coworkers on Friday, but I wanted to share it with as many people as possible since the purpose is to get people praying for our coming weeks.

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Dear Fellow Faculty, Church Family, and Friends,

Some of you who know me pretty well are already aware of a major life change occurring in my family very soon. Back in January of this year, after I successfully completed my degree at UCF, God placed a plan in front of my husband Jeff and me. We were not looking for any drastic changes to our life. On the contrary, we were looking forward to life calming down a bit at that point.

God had been blessing our family financially during the previous 6 years when the economy was getting worse and worse. We knew there was something more we were supposed to be doing, but we did not know what it was. Then one day, one of the moms at the studio where our girls dance approached me about the idea of adopting. She sent me this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RtXJEaarTVs&feature=my_favorites&list=FL9v140LHYAJDyQGdiPfyQAw

which broke my heart and changed our lives forever. When I spoke to Jeff and asked him about his feelings on adopting, his reply was, "That's something I have actually thought about for a long time." As it turned out, over the previous year or more, both Jeff and I were touched every time Pastor Ray talked about orphans and adoption, but we never spoke to one another about it. Ten years ago when we made a decision to stop having children after Emmy was born (when I was almost 40 years old), we said we could always adopt later if we wanted a boy. Jeff and I further discussed the idea of adoption and said due to our lifestyle and ages, we would consider adopting if the child was a boy with only minor special needs and in the age range of 4-6 years old. I shared our conversation with our friend Erin and within a week, on February 8th, an email arrived with the subject "Had to Send"...

These 2 photos and his story were in it...



As God would have it, He presented to us a precious little boy living on the other side of the world without a family. He was abandoned in a bus station in Hengyang, Hunan Province, China, when he was around 2 years old. His name was made up . . . his birthday is made up. . . As soon as we saw the photos, we KNEW this was our son. We prayed and prayed, and we had the deacons at church pray with us, and God sent us clearly visible signs that adopting this sweet little boy was HIS PLAN for our family. On February 23rd, we sent our LOI (Letter of Intent to adopt).

Throughout the entire process, God has expedited the wait. While some people wait more than a year or 18 months for an adoption, this adoption has flown by, and we will be meeting our son in less than 8 months from the start of it! Some people wait 4-6 months for a home study; ours was done in 3 WEEKS!! Some people wait 126 days for their LOA (Letter of Authority) from China; ours was received in just 53 DAYS!! Every wait for us has been faster than normal. We are blessed, and it is more than evident that God wants this sweet child here with us!

So . . . that's the story in a nutshell. Three (3) weeks from TODAY, the Jekabsons family will be flying out of Tampa to go get our new son and brother, Yang Liu Mu, to be adopted as Ian Liumu Jekabsons (nickname "MuMu"). He is registered for Kindergarten and will start school here with Mrs. Huey on October 29th.

I share all of this with you because we need your prayers more than anything else!! These next few weeks of preparation will be exciting, nerve-wracking, scary, and wonderful. Our girls, Sarah (13) and Emmy (10) have never flown, and Jeff hates to fly, but in addition to giving up his 'man cave' to create his son's bedroom, he is making this trip with joy in his heart. We have seen other families go to China and return with no problems. We have heard of families who get sick over there. We have seen families come back sick. We have seen families struggle with the trip. We don't know how Ian will react to us. He has a care package from us with a letter and a photo album of our family and home. He is supposedly being prepared for us. He was just recently told we are coming and that he finally has a family. He has lived there for 3 1/2 years.

We humbly request you pray for our family for the next month. We will fly out on Oct. 12th. We will meet Ian on Oct 15th. We will sign the adoption papers on the 16th. We will obtain his visa on the 24th, and we will be home around midnight on the 25th. We will be traveling with 2 suitcases of baby blankets for the orphanage and a suitcase being filled by Emmy's 5th grade class (Mr. Goh) with donations and letters for Ian's friends.

If you feel led, please visit our blog http://waitingforian.blogspot.com/ and follow our journey. As long as technology cooperates, I plan to update daily with stories and photos. Last night I posted new videos received from the mom that met him a couple of weeks ago and actually told him about us! He is so sweet! I guarantee he'll make you smile. Thank you in advance for being a part of our family's adventure.

Love & Blessings,
Georgia

Saturday, September 22, 2012

Ian Eating Lunch on 9/20/12


Thank you to another mom, Kathleen, who visited ICC and took pictures of our little man!   We are so blessed to have received so many pictures of our son over the past 7 months!  The good news is many families have gone to ICC to adopt their children.  The bad news is Ian keeps losing his friends.  But not for long!!   Get ready MuMu… we are coming soon!!!  20 more days till take off!!!!

Blessings, 
Georgia   

Baby Blankets for the Orphanage



Thursday, September 20, 2012

Beth with our Ian and her precious Joy

Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

A Special Gift!



This video was sent to me tonight by the sweetest mom who was visiting the orphanage a couple of weeks ago when she picked up her sweet little girl.  She told him to say "Hi Baba and Mama" and HE DID!  It's quick and softly spoken, but sooooo sweet!!!  LOOK AT HIS SMILE!!!   Apparently this little girl in the video with him, was crying and Beth said "He had just hauled her over to that side of the room and she was crying.. And then he loved on her! It was very sweet. He is a love!!!"  I can't wait to hug on this little cutie pie!!!  21 days and counting!!!!  Just got another one from Beth... had to add it below... 



Wednesday, September 19, 2012

CA Received This Morning!


This is a photo of the official TA - Travel Approval which arrived via FEDEX tonight.  This morning we received our CA date of 10/23... Tickets are booked and paid for! 22 days to take-off! I can't believe the time has come for us to make our trek across the world! Thank you Lord Jesus for this blessing to our family!

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

We Have TA!!!! And....Ian's Finding AD

In only 6 days wait, we have TA!!!! As we await our Consulate Appointment date, here is a wonderful gift I received today from the sweet person who connected us to our boy back in February. This is has FINDING AD. He was such a beautiful baby! Just 3-1/2 weeks and we could be leaving to get him!!! Thank you Lord!!!!


Saturday, September 8, 2012

Officially Waiting For TA

According to our adoption agency yesterday our Article 5 was picked up and we are officially awaiting TA. TA means Travel Approval. We will hopefully have travel approval in the next 2 weeks. After that we will request a consulate appointment for Oct. 23rd. Once that is approved we will be able to purchase our airline tickets. These next weeks should be a whirlwind for our family. We are so excited and anxious and just can't wait to meet our son and brother. Please keep our family in your prayers and especially our newest member... Ian (MuMu) as he waits for us to go get him and ICC prepares him for his adoption. Please pray for a smooth transition for him.

God bless you all.
Georgia

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

HE HAS IT NOW!!!

WHAHOOOOO!!! Confirmation received... Our boy received his care package with our letter and photos, toys etc. and he is HAPPY and "looking forward to us coming to get him"!!!! I am one OVER THE TOP happy mama right now!!!! Hopefully just 5 more weeks till we get there!

Blessings,
Georgia

Saturday, September 1, 2012

6 Weeks and Counting...

Whewwww... I have survived the first 2 weeks of school with the most insane schedule. Praise God my boss has agreed to remove a few classes from my schedule and give them to the other Art teacher.  Hopefully by this time next week, I'll only be teaching 23 classes instead of 28.   Time will tell. 

Meanwhile, this morning I'm actually getting to kick back and relax for a short bit before I have to go to work tonight for AV duty at church.  As I'm sitting here with my feet up, sipping my coffee and catching up on my Secret Pal's blog story of her homecoming with her beautiful little girl, I'm realizing that just 6 weeks from today we could be landing in Ch*na!!!!  The reality is starting to hit!   6 weeks is NOT a very long time!  I'm thinking I have a great deal of organizing to do for this trip in the next few weeks. I haven't even begun to create a packing list, we have to visit our doctors for shots and antibiotics to take with us, I have to pack up the beautiful blankets that have been made and donated for me to deliver to the orphanage and I have to find the best airfare rates I can.   YIKES... and we don't even have luggage yet!!! The time is just sneaking up on us!  

Meanwhile, we are waiting to hear if Ian has received his care package from us.  More than the cake party and toys, I'm concerned about the letter and photo album reaching him.  I want him to start to get to know us.  We have been sent photos, videos and updates about him and even little tidbits about his personality, but he knows nothing about us at all.  I'm trying to imagine his reaction and what will be going through his mind as he learns from the caregivers about us.  We have no control over how they will prepare him for us, although our understanding is that his facility is very good at preparing the children for their forever families.  But the anxiety filled questions are still in my mind... Will he be happy and excited about meeting us and moving to America?  Will he be scared and apprehensive?  Will he run to our arms when we see him or will he scream in fear?   I can't wait to meet him and hold him.  I can't wait to see him with his two big sisters who have been loving and adoring him from afar.  I have a fairy tale picture in my mind of how the first meeting will go on "Gotcha Day", but being a somewhat logically minded person, I also know it could go completely different when the time comes. 

This would be a time that I no doubt have to just sit back and put my trust in God that He has ordained this whole thing for our family and He has only the best planned for us, as it says in Jeremiah 29:11 - "For I know the plans I have for you, "declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."  In that promise I will stand as I sign off this blog this morning and focus on the things I can do and change, rather than the things I have no control over.

Have a blessed day my friends, 

Love, 
Georgia  

Thursday, August 30, 2012

New Photos and Measurements of our lil' man


How stinkin' cute is he?!?!?


It amazes me how many photos we have been blessed with. Our handsome guy knows we are coming for us now. Hoping his party cake and care package get to him this week. In just about 6 weeks we hope to be on our way to scoop him up!


Friday, August 24, 2012

Catching Up On The Past Few Weeks

So many things to catch up on since my last blog post.  I'm starting to think I'm not a very good blogger.  Since receiving LOA on July 30th we received our visas in the mail and our I800 approval on August 14th and then we were cabled by the NVC on August 23rd.  Now we await our Article 5 and TA (Travel Approval) and then make the CA (Consulate Appointment) which allows us to schedule our flights!  We are probably going to have a "Gotcha Day" of October 15th and a CA on October 23rd, but we won't know for sure until around September 19th.  Once we have our CA we can purchase those airline tickets!!!  

While wading through the I800 and DS-230 paperwork and then waiting for approvals, the summer break has ended and I went back to work on August 13th.  Our students started back this week on August 20th.  The weekend in between was jam packed with birthday celebration for Emmy as she turned double digits on Sunday!  To say it's been a busy couple of weeks would be an understatement.  So here it is Friday and I'm exhausted, but overall it was a pretty good first week of school.    

So let's get caught up a bit on the adoption stuff... 

Let's see... 


  

So this is Emmy helping Daddy with the knockout spray on the new wall forthe doorway that Daddy built.  This room used to be the "man cave".  Now it will be the "boy cave".  LOL   What is really cool, is I have photos of Sarah helping paint Emmy's room when I was pregnant with her and now we have Emmy helping with Ian's room.  She's "paying it forward"... LOVE IT!!!!


This is the finished doorway... YAY Jeff! Nice work!



Next came the inside of the room.  Daddy and the girls took the painting on.  Mommy chose the color and off they went! Great job! 


Now it was Mommy's turn!  Decorating time!  Simplicity is said to be best for children coming from an orphanage.  Too much stimulation is not good for them and can be overwhelming.  


This room doesn't have a closet since it was really supposed to be a "den".  So... we found this great wardrobe unit and some cute "wallies" to make it more kid friendly.  It does the trick! 


Can't wait to see him sitting in that bean bag chair!  The rocker in the corner was my father's when he was a toddler, then it was mine, then Sarah's, then Emmy's and now... Ian's.  

  

This wonderful array of goodies was received from my Secret Pal, Sheryl as she was up in the air on her way to get her little girl!  What a wonderful bunch of little boy stuff!!  And it's all the first things for him.  The shirt and pants are his very first outfit!


This is a photo of my cyber-friend Beth who I met via a BAAS (Bay Area Adoption Services) Yahoo group.  She was with our Ian last week when she was there adopting her little girl, Joy.  Joy is the sweetheart in pink sitting next to her mama.  Beth had the opportunity to tour the orphanage and met our lil' man!!  She said he was shy but did come sit on her lap.  He's so adorable!! We have been so fortunate to have received so many photos from people who have visited and seen our son over the past 6 months of this process.  No one else has had as close contact with him as Beth did last week, but they have taken photos just the same and shared them with the adopting parents if they know who they are.  Beth actually was able to give him a kiss and  tell him that his mama loves him very much!  I'm so blessed!  And now he knows!  He knows he has a family who loves him and is coming to get him soon!


Now that we are only about 7 weeks away from traveling, we are finally allowed to contact Ian, so I wrote him a letter and sent it to a sweet girl in Ch*na to put together a care package to send to him.  I ordered a "Forever Family Celebration Package" and added some things to it.  It includes a letter from us translated into Ch*nese, a silk photo album with about 20 photos of us and our home and even Gracie, a big fresh cake, a red bag to hold his new treasures in, a book, a stuffed mama panda holding a baby panda, and a camera for the orphanage to take some daily photos for us.  I had also ordered a cool truck and three stuffed balls but they couldn't get them.  They substituted a puzzle and musical phone, but I questioned whether or not they would be too babyish for a 5-1/2 year old and to my surprise, the rep went back out shopping today and bought him some trucks instead!  


I was so surprised, and so happy!  We were told he likes trucks and balls and his favorite color is red.  I think he will like these!!! 


This is the camera for the orphanage to take photos for us over the next weeks.  Then, if all goes well, they should give it to us on "Gotcha Day" to have developed!  


This is the photo album.  It has photos of us and Gracie, his room, our house, etc.  My understanding is that his facility takes good care in preparing the children to meet their parents and he will hopefully recognize us when we meet on October 15th!


This is the bag for him to put his treasures into.

Wow!!!  I really WAS behind in my blogging!!  There has been a lot going on since we received our LOA on July 30th!  I think I better stay on top of this better.  Thanks for visiting!

Love & Blessings, 
Georgia



Tuesday, July 31, 2012

WOW!!! LOA & Flowers!!!

Yesterday, on day 53, we received an email saying we have LOA!!!!! For those of you not in the adopting world, 53 days is not that long of a wait compared to some who waited over 100 days!!! LOA means Letter of Authority or Acceptance...basically Ch*na has thoroughly looked at our family and has approved us to be Ian's parents!

Then today I just received these MAGNIFICENT flowers from my Super Terrific Not-So-Secret-Anymore Pal! WOW! Are they pretty!!

Gotta get my I800, DS230 and I864 forms done so we can move on in the process and bring our boy home!

Blessings to you,
Georgia

Sunday, July 29, 2012

LOA Waiting Day 52

Today is day 52 of our LOA wait. Great progress made this weekend when Jeff and the girls got Ian's room painted yesterday.  Today I ordered his bedding online.  It should all be here on Wednesday. Things are moving along.  Maybe this week we will see that LOA arrive?  


Blessings,
Georgia 

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Thanks to a sweet adopting mom...

Some days it feels like the adoption is not real.  But today, was NOT one of those days!  Today, I had the privilege of receiving an email from a sweet adopting mom who took photos of our little Mu (Ian) just hours earlier.   He was napping and apparently slept through a ton of activity in the room.  Hmmmm... just like his daddy!!!  LOL   Jeff actually slept through a riot outside of our house years ago in New Jersey!   Anyway, the following pics are Mu in his little bed at nap-time yesterday.  


He calculates out online to being in the 95th percentile for his height and weight.  By the looks of his little tootsies sticking out of the end of his toddler bed, I'd say that is pretty accurate!!  I'm thinkin' basketball player???? 



He is just so adorable and hug-able looking! I can't wait till he knows we are coming for him.  For now... we continue to wait.  It would be too emotional for him to be waiting for a few months for us, so as we sit on day 42 of our LOA wait, it is better for him not to know yet.  Only a few more months though... So thank you Kirsten... you surely made my day and the wait, a little brighter today!  


Blessings,
Georgia


Thursday, July 12, 2012

"In process"

Well, we just received an email from our agency that says "Your dossier is back from the translation company (July 12) and the status is now "In process" which means your dossier is now in the review room. I hope to receive the LOA in about a month and half."  


Still a ton of waiting, but at least its something... I'm thinking October travel is not happening... :(  I was really hoping we would travel mid to end of October.  I'm starting to think November is what we are looking at.  My biggest fear is the cost of airfare as the holidays get closer.  



Trying to stay positive and remember it's all in God's perfect timing...

Blessings, 
Georgia 

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

A Surprise From My Secret Pal!!!

A beautiful gift from my DTC Winter Secret Pal!  What a super surprise after a fun-filled and insanely busy day of teaching musical theatre camp!  Thank you to my Secret Pal!!  You are the best!!   It is gorgeous and I totally LOVE it!!! 



Blessings, 
Georgia

Friday, June 22, 2012

I Love My DTC Secret Pal

What a joy it is to arrive home after being out all day and open the mailbox to find not one but TWO super sweet and creative cards of encouragement from my DTC Secret Pal!  A HUGE smile adorns my face thanks to your sweetness.  I can't wait for the day when I find out who you are!  Thank you for being a little bit of sunlight on a thunderstorm day!

Blessings,
Georgia

Thursday, June 7, 2012

LID - FINALLY!!!!

After 20 days of waiting and watching others get theirs faster than us, we finally have word of LID.  We are now officially awaiting our LOA. (Letter of Acceptance)   Who knows what God has in store with the wait time.  Someone just got theirs after only 23 days and other families have waited over 100 days.  There doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason to the timing.  So... once again... we wait.
Blessings,
Georgia

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Being Patient...

Some days I get so frustrated.  While I am THRILLED for all the families who have received LOA and TA over the past week, which has been a HUGE number of families and it is so very exciting for them, We are a bit behind them in the process and our dossier was just sent to Ch*na on 5/18.  Other families who sent theirs on 5/18 received their LID (Lock in Date) last week.  But here we sit.  Our agent keeps calling them every day but they say they have been busy or in meetings.  I don't understand how some received on the same date got processed and others have not.  I have to keep reminding myself I am not in control.  Meanwhile... my Secret Pal received LOA the other day so I'm packaging up a box with goodies in it for her today.  I truly am so happy for the other families getting through the process, I just wish I was on the same train. 
Blessings,
Georgia

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Ok... so check this out...

I just think this is the coolest thing.... our youngest daughter, Emmy, is going into 5th grade.  Much to my dismay, our wonderful 5th grade teacher, Mr. Woods decided to retire at the completion of this school year.  Within two (2) weeks of Mr. Woods giving his notice, our school hired a man who just happens to have taught in H*ng K*ng for 9 years!!! He is bilingual and raising his daughters bilingual. One of his daughters will be in Ian's kindergarten class!!! GOD IS AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So much for serious concern about the language barrier!!!!  I can't wait to meet Mr. Goh and his family! 

Blessings,
Georgia

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Mother's Day

Well I sure have had a great mother's day so far!  My day started with breakfast in bed, some super sweet cards, a beautiful orchid, a sweet adoption prayer bracelet from hubby, and an adorable clay bracelet made by my sweet Emmy.  Of course I can't forget about my lovely standing mirror/jewelry cabinet either. I'm a lucky mommy...






After a relaxing morning I cleaned up and headed out to lunch with my mom.  We had a great day we had!  And much to my surprise we actually shopped and found a piece of furniture for Ian's room!  YAY!  I took pics and Jeff is good with it, so I think we will be going back for it.  

My mom picked up this adorable bistro set for our front porch.  Now I can sit out by the garden pond and read and drink my tea.


When I got settled in at home I was looking online for wall art for a boy bedroom and I found this...


It's sooooooo cute!!!  I think it may help me create a room theme!!


Now we are getting ready to head over to the school for an Upper School Drama Production.  Should be lots of fun! 

Blessings,
Georgia

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

GREAT DAY!!!!

Today was a day filled with fun, love, productivity and blessings!!!  I LOVE when God gives me (us) days like this! 

I was so unbelievably exhausted this morning after being sick all weekend, then teaching all day yesterday, then working at the Community Honors Banquet at school and washing banquet dishes till after 10pm.  I had to force my body out of the bed this morning to get the girls to school.  Jeff and I were scheduled for our USCIS fingerprinting today and we had errands and banking to take care of as well.  To say that I was lacking ambition when I got up is an understatement.    

But... off we went.  The girls were dropped off at school and we headed over to the medical lab for Jeff to get stuck in the arm for follow up blood tests.  After waiting an hour, I left him and went to the bank to start working on our cashier's check for BLAS and a wire transfer for CCCWA.  He finished and actually walked down to the bank to meet me. It was such a beautiful morning!  After another hour at the bank, we finally had a feeling of success and treated ourselves to a wonderful breakfast out.  I can't remember the last time Jeff and I went out to breakfast, just the two of us.  It was so much FUN!!!  It was almost like a DATE!  By now, I was WIDE AWAKE and feeling pretty good!

After fueling ourselves up at breakfast, we fueled up the car, grabbed a couple of .99 sweet teas at Dunkin Donuts and hit the highway for Tampa!  We arrived at USCIS about 30 minutes early.  The people there were awesome!  They were smiling and friendly and FUNNY!!  Of course they DID make Jeff take his "Macgyver" swiss army knife and put it in the car!  Somehow I guess they frown upon those sorts of things at the Dept. of Homeland Security!  LOL  

We fully expected to have to wait a while to get our prints done, especially since the waiting area was pretty full.  But... we were logged in, printed, done and leaving 15 minutes before our scheduled appointment time!  WOW!   What a surprise at a government office!! 

On the way back home I received a HUGE surprise of an email update from BAAS!!!  We received Ian's current measurements AND four new photos!!!!  (See below)  I was thrilled since the last measurements we had for him were dated March 2011, so it was a bummer not having something more current.  So how odd is it for a ch*nese orphan boy to be in the 95 percentile for his age/height/weight????    He's now 44.5 inches tall, 50.7 lbs, 21.3 inch head, 23.4 inch chest.  OMG!  I think that must make him a size 6 or something?!?!?


He's so STINKIN' CUTE!!!


I can not figure out WHAT he is doing in this picture!?!?!  But he's STILL cute!!!




Not looking like a happy camper here... done with the camera maybe???



To top off the day, we went looking at furniture for Ian's room and found my mother's day present... a cool standing mirrow with a jewelry cabinet inside!  I always wanted one!!  YAY ME!!!! :-)  



NOW... to get all my stuff IN THERE!!!!


Like I said... it's been a GREAT DAY!!!  Thank you Lord for the day that You have made!

Blessings,
Georgia